LOOK AT YOURSELF!

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I THOUGHT THIS 2 BE TRUE – Even if others do not!

sOME PEOPLE ALWAYS HAVE TO BE THE ONE up! on others.THEY HAVE TO TALK DOWN TO YA….EVEN WHEN THEY act AS THOUGH THEY ARE BEING SUPPORTIVE, IF THEY CANNOT BOOST THEIR EGO BY BEING RIGHT IN ANY GIVEN SITUATION, WELL THEN THEY HAVE TO DEMEAN AN ASSAULT YA WITH WERDS….AN ACCUSE YA OF DOING THE EXACT THING THAT THEY THEMSELVES DO??can we call the kettle blacker? ? indifference is the CRIME HERE!
Can or does anyone ever really bother to lewk at themselves i wunder

LEWK @ uRSELF!!!!!!!!!!

SOME PEOPLE IN THE WERLD THINK THE WERLD OWES THEM EVRYTHING, CUZ THEY DID WHATEVR THEY DID IN THE PAST ? GOOD BAD ER INDIFFERENTder these days??????Always finding for, an lewkin for fault in others is the nature of folks like this really….Ya can love em’ with all ur heart an soul an werk for them all they wanted ya to, but well, in the end that was not ever good enuff?????
Pointing the fingers at others an applying blame where it does not need to be applied is the normal human nature of these people. They will tell ya they are not like that ; but after ya spend some time with them …sumtimes takes weeks or months, well then, when they FEEL? insulted or slammed because something did not go right, well who is to blame, the other in thier eyes….When they are having a bad day or week or month, be careful, U might be the brunt of the anger they carry in thier heart for others, which has nothing to do with U!…seems to be a fact of life these days, after hanging out long enuff with someone ya do see the character defects they have in the personal nature they carry in thier soul an heart! an the true colors show up eventually, the selfishness ME_ITIS type of attitude….All for a buck or 2 more ussually in the end is the way it ussually werks out with these kinna folks, those who are never wrong but always right, an always above ya an talk down to ya all the time, but they can’t see thier own heart an soul because they are to busy demeaning others for one thing or another. Truly sucks when arrogance an false PRIDE! an always having to be the RIGHT ONE rules! These kinna folks expect friends to work for FREE! …friends are supposed to do it for nothing i have heard in the past from more than one soul with this kinna character defect! To be truly appreciated by people like this is truly hard. Even when ya have werked more than ur fair share for the products or cash given for the services. All it takes is one time; one TIME of u calling them on thier own crap…an ya will be thrown out of thier reality, an be the one in the wrong! kinna insidious really to me, That not many people take the time to LOOK AT THEMSELVES! They would rather be boisterous an demanding, so the EGO { Edging god out} wins for the day!? 😦 sad deal really.users an abusers ..i watch this time an time again, people whom always complain an hardly ever thank. an are rarely thankful!..THEY KNOW NOT THE VALUE OF grattitide!….but sure know how to throw stones when things do not go thier way! Can dish it out but can’t take a werd back in retaliation at thier rudenesssssssssss!

So? do u live with or hang out with someone that is always NEGATIVE, an has a negative viewpoint bout most things in life?…where most of the conversations are always bout how others are so fucked up er whatevr…..always defending thier way or beliefs bout themselves in one way or another, an never taking responsibility to jest BE an have a normal OUTLOOK on things…..some are always complainers, an nothing will ever be right for them no matter what ya do ya will never truly satisfy them, they will surely cut ya off once they feel indebted to you….or things do not werk out the way they wanted them to..tHEY WILL GET AT YA WHEN THEY THINK THEY OWE U ZIP FOR ALL U DONE ?:( DON’T WANNA GET INDEBTED TO YA THEY DON’T THATS FER SURE…..
These kinna men an women always need to PROVE THEY ARE SUPERIOR to ya in one way or another,,,,fact of life! In the end ussually – an all things must end, good an bad…….but with these kind of people in the end? the only true friends they end up having are the ones that will put up with listening to them whine an be negative about everything under the sun……..
Today was one of those kind of days fer me here! frum the time i got moving in life…i was slighted for BEING ME…in so many ways…could not say much of anything during the day without the negative comments being part of thier reality. Being bitched at an ridiculed for evrey thing one does???is not a fun way to go about ur days..within the furst hour of so of hanging out with this person in QUESTION! not a reflection of me?:( i was CORRECTED probably 3 er 4 times. for evry move i made or many things i said? The only real conversations had were me responding to ridicule an complaints the best way i could?
Putting words in my mouth an saying i thought something i never thought of or said something i never really said, well that truly pisses me offffffffff…..there comes a time when ur hot an bothered an tired of listening to someone telling ya everything ya are doing is wrong an they know a better way…..ya blatently tell this person ya see why they have the problems they do an did in thier life in the past! an even present…then of course THEY WILL BLOW UP ON YA AN PUT WERDS IN UR MOUTH an tell ya ya said things ya never even thought of!!!

.presumtiousness is the root of all evil{against live} here……….

So they ASSUME THINGS enuff to tell ya ya CALL THEM A LIAR OR NAME THEY ABHORE!…when ya nevr said such a thing….Defensiveness an RIGHTNESS is more important to them at this point than friendship…they even ridicule that! so THEy can BE RIGHT!!!!!!!!!an ESCALATING IT INTO AN ARGUMENT OR A U SAID THIS OR THAT SCREAMING MATCH IS THIER NATURE!!!!!!!SIGNS OF THE PAST COMING BACK TO HAUNT THEM an FEAR is the true reality here! an doing the same things over an over as years before,an expecting different results.
RUDENESS AN SHUTTING ONE OFF AN NOT ALLOWING THE OTHER TO SPEAK AN BEING SHORT SIGHTED IS THE TRUE NATURE HERE!
THIS WAY THE EGO WINSSSSSSSSSSS! in thier heart an brain…….

i CALL IT false pride………..AN WHEN FALSE PRIDE WINS THE PERSON WITH IT looses!!!!!!!

sOME PEOPLE ALWAYS HAVE TO BE THE ONE up! on others.THEY HAVE TO TALK DOWN TO YA….EVEN WHEN THEY act AS THOUGH THEY ARE BEING SUPPORTIVE, IF THEY CANNOT BOOST THIER EGO BY BEING RIGHT IN ANY GIVEN SITUATION, WELL THEN THEY HAVE TO DEMEAN AN ASSAULT YA WITH WERDS….AN ACCUSE YA OF DOING THE EXACT THING THAT THEY THEMSELVES DO??can we call the kettle blacker? ? indifference is the CRIME HERE!
Can or does anyone ever really bother to lewk at themselves i wunLEWK @ uRSELF!!!!!!!!!!

SOME PEOPLE IN THE WERLD THINK THE WERLD OWES THEM EVRYTHING, CUZ THEY DID WHATEVR THEY DID IN THE PAST ? GOOD BAD ER INDIFFERENTder these days??????Always finding for, an lewkin for fault in others is the nature of folks like this really….Ya can love em’ with all ur heart an soul an werk for them all they wanted ya to, but well, in the end that was not ever good enuff?????
Pointing the fingers at others an applying blame where it does not need to be applied is the normal human nature of these people. They will tell ya they are not like that ; but after ya spend some time with them …sumtimes takes weeks or months, well then, when they FEEL? insulted or slammed because something did not go right, well who is to blame, the other in thier eyes….When they are having a bad day or week or month, be careful, U might be the brunt of the anger they carry in thier heart for others, which has nothing to do with U!…seems to be a fact of life these days, after hanging out long enuff with someone ya do see the character defects they have in the personal nature they carry in thier soul an heart! an the true colors show up eventually, the selfishness ME_ITIS type of attitude….All for a buck or 2 more ussually in the end is the way it usually werks out with these kinna folks, those who are never wrong but always right, an always above ya an talk down to ya all the time, but they can’t see thier own heart an soul because they are to busy demeaning others for one thing or another. Truly sucks when arrogance an false PRIDE! an always having to be the RIGHT ONE rules! These kinna folks expect friends to work for FREE! …friends are supposed to do it for nothing i have heard in the past from more than one soul with this kinna character defect! To be truly appreciated by people like this is truly hard. Even when ya have werked more than ur fair share for the products or cash given for the services. All it takes is one time; one TIME of u calling them on thier own crap…an ya will be thrown out of their reality, an be the one in the wrong! kinna insidious really to me, That not many people take the time to LOOK AT THEMSELVES! They would rather be boisterous an demanding, so the EGO { Edging god out} wins for the day!? 😦 sad deal really.users an abusers ..i watch this time an time again, people whom always complain an hardly ever thank. an are rarely thankful!..THEY KNOW NOT THE VALUE OF gratitude!….but sure know how to throw stones when things do not go thier way! Can dish it out but can’t take a werd back in retaliation at thier rudenesssssssssss!

So? do u live with or hang out with someone that is always NEGATIVE, an has a negative viewpoint bout most things in life?…where most of the conversations are always bout how others are so fucked up er whatevr…..always defending thier way or beliefs bout themselves in one way or another, an never taking responsibility to jest BE an have a normal OUTLOOK on things…..some are always complainers, an nothing will ever be right for them no matter what ya do ya will never truly satisfy them, they will surely cut ya off once they feel indebted to you….or things do not werk out the way they wanted them to..tHEY WILL GET AT YA WHEN THEY THINK THEY OWE U ZIP FOR ALL U DONE ?:( DON’T WANNA GET INDEBTED TO YA THEY DON’T THATS FER SURE…..
These kinna men an women always need to PROVE THEY ARE SUPERIOR to ya in one way or another,,,,fact of life! In the end ussually – an all things must end, good an bad…….but with these kind of people in the end? the only true friends they end up having are the ones that will put up with listening to them whine an be negative about everything under the sun……..
Today was one of those kind of days fer me here! frum the time i got moving in life…i was slighted for BEING ME…in so many ways…could not say much of anything during the day without the negative comments being part of thier reality. Being bitched at an ridiculed for evrey thing one does???is not a fun way to go about ur days..within the furst hour of so of hanging out with this person in QUESTION! not a reflection of me?:( i was CORRECTED probably 3 er 4 times. for evry move i made or many things i said? The only real conversations had were me responding to ridicule an complaints the best way i could?
Putting words in my mouth an saying i thought something i never thought of or said something i never really said, well that truly pisses me offffffffff…..there comes a time when ur hot an bothered an tired of listening to someone telling ya everything ya are doing is wrong an they know a better way…..ya blatently tell this person ya see why they have the problems they do an did in thier life in the past! an even present…then of course THEY WILL BLOW UP ON YA AN PUT WERDS IN UR MOUTH an tell ya ya said things ya never even thought of!!!

.presumptuousness is the root of all evil{against live} here……….

So they ASSUME THINGS enuff to tell ya ya CALL THEM A LIAR OR NAME THEY ABHOR!…when ya nevr said such a thing….Defensiveness an RIGHTNESS is more important to them at this point than friendship…they even ridicule that! so THEy can BE RIGHT!!!!!!!!!an ESCALATING IT INTO AN ARGUMENT OR A U SAID THIS OR THAT SCREAMING MATCH IS THIER NATURE!!!!!!!SIGNS OF THE PAST COMING BACK TO HAUNT THEM an FEAR is the true reality here! an doing the same things over an over as years before,an expecting different results.
RUDENESS AN SHUTTING ONE OFF AN NOT ALLOWING THE OTHER TO SPEAK AN BEING SHORT SIGHTED IS THE TRUE NATURE HERE!
THIS WAY THE EGO WINSSSSSSSSSSS! in thier heart an brain…….

i CALL IT false pride………..AN WHEN FALSE PRIDE WINS THE PERSON WITH IT looses!!!!!!!

EVEN THOUGH THEY WISH TO HURT ON THE OTHER PERSON AN MAKE THEM FEEL LIKE THEY ARE AT FAULT…..FOLKS LIKE THIS TURN INSENSITIVE TO ANY ONE ELSES FEELINGS BUT OTHER THAN WHAT THEY THOUGHT? WAS BRUISED OR INSULTED IN THIER WERLD, CUZ WELL, THEY ARE NOT USED TO ANYONE STANDING THIER OWN GROUND AN BEING A MAN OR A WOMAN AN STANDING UP FOR THEIR OWN RIGHTS!
HOW COULD YA???????? THEY SAY???????????????LOL………….
wELL, SELFISH INDIGNIFIED childlike behavior is uncool in thier eyes as long as they are lewking at others, but when they act thata way well, it becomes another story.is where the FALSE PRIDE STEPS IN an the EGO is always right an the other wrong..they stand thier ground of insecure indifference they apply to the world daily an do not even see it………IS WHERE I COME TO THE TERM!!!!!! lewk at ueself!!!!!!!

LOOK AT URSELF!!!!!!!!!

These kind of folks are the kind that will sacrifice a friendship……..IN ORDER for thier EGO TO BE RIGHT! is bout the bottom line of it all………an until they WAKE UP AN SEE THAT THE RESULTS OF THE DEMEANING NEGATIVITY THEY EXUBERATE;
CAN”T BE FIXED BY ANOTHER OR EVEN LOVE FOR THAT MATTER OF A FACT!!!!
LOVE WELL……….HAS BECOME A FORIEGN WERD TO THESE KIND OF INDIVIDUALS, an if it was staring them down like a tiger they would miss out on it!……..
For my life i know what its like to have personal integrity enuff not to bitch at another, even when ya know they might owe ya more than they BELIEVE!? WHERE AN WHEN EVERTHING BECOMES A PROBLEM! an u no longer serve them to thier own desires.AN UR in THIER WAY!?…….if ur not flattering the ego of them an agreeing with all thier matter of correctness all the time, well,at that point in time ya will looseeeeeeeeeeeee………BOUT ALL THERE IS TO IT!!!!! so watch it when dealing with “FRIENDS” that are only out to satisfy thier own personal needs an DESIRES!? 😦 sad deal when other can’t
LOOK AT THEMSELVES!!!!!!! BUT THEY ALWAYS HAVE SOMETHING NGATIVE TO SAY BOUT OTHERS AN LIFE 😦
AN FALSE PRIDE AN EGO GETS IN THE WAY OF SOMEONE GOING OUT OF THIER WAY TO HELP THEM WITH EVERY NEED AN DESIRE THEY HAVE????? 😦

PS: Not the furst time i have repeated this mistake at all, i am too trusting, i believe in the end they will see THE TRUTH…but is a pipe dream really…..for until they look at themselves AN HAVE SOME REMORSE AN grattitude THIS WILL NOT CHANGE EVER! cAN’T FIX OR CHANGE SOMEONE ELSES BAD ATTITUDE OR VIEWPOINTS IF THEY DON’T WANT TO FIX THEMSELVES….

LAST YEAR I PUT MY WHOLE TRUST AN MY LIFES ENERGY INTO A friends life……I LOST OUT!……. He made a business deal with me 50-50……. well we all know how that turned out now….50% of 50% is still 25% of the whole!!!!!!!!! an he still has not returned PERSONAL stuff that he has that is mine!!!!!! on top of that …..taking advantage of another an IN UR FACE FUCK YOU IS THE WAY FOR PEOPLE LIKE THIS!!!!!
AN this summer i put my whole life an energy into helping another that don’t appreciate the same way…ALTHOUGH THIS PERSON DIDN’T IN MY FACE TAKE FRUM ME…..THIS PERSON ASSAULTED SOMETHING JEST AS IMPORTANT IN MY LIFE TO ME THAN ALL THE MONEY IN THE WERLD AN MATERIAL ASSETS INCLUDED…..MY PERSONAL INTEGRITY!
JEST ANOTHER LAYER AN LEVEL OF WINNING!!!! FOR THIER EGO!!!!!!!!!!!!…
MUST BE A HELL OF A WAY TO LIVE? ALWAYS BEING RIGHT AN ALWAYS HAVING THINGS THIER WAY!……………ALWAYS BEING BETTER THAN THE GUY NEXT DOOR!!!!! ALWAYS BEING PURFECT!!!!.NEVER BEING WRONG…AN ALWAYS ACTING LIKE EVERYONE ELSE IS THE “PROBLEM”…..
SOUND LIKE A RANT.YES INDEED IT IS……. cuz i am so tired of incriminating selfish self centered holier than thou attitudes coming frum those with serious character defects an life problems they themselves can’t even see an don’t think they have…….

the world daily an do not even see it………IS WHERE I COME TO THE TERM!!!!EVEN THOUGH THEY WISH TO HURT ON THE OTHER PERSON AN MAKE THEM FEEL LIKE THEY ARE AT FAULT…..FOLKS LIKE THIS TURN INSENSITIVE TO ANY ONE ELSES FEELINGS BUT OTHER THAN WHAT THEY THOUGHT? WAS BRUISED OR INSULTED IN THIER WERLD, CUZ WELL, THEY ARE NOT USED TO ANYONE STANDING THIER OWN GROUND AN BEING A MAN OR A WOMAN AN STANDING UP FOR THEIR OWN RIGHTS!
HOW COULD YA???????? THEY SAY???????????????LOL………….
wELL, SELFISH UNDIGNIFIED childlike behavior is uncool in thier eyes as long as they are lewking at others, but when they act thata way well, it becomes another story.is where the FALSE PRIDE STEPS IN an the EGO is always right an the other wrong..they stand their ground of insecure indifference they apply to !! lewk at ueself!!!!!!!

LOOK AT URSELF!!!!!!!!!

These kind of folks are the kind that will sacrifice a friendship……..IN ORDER for thier EGO TO BE RIGHT! is bout the bottom line of it all………an until they WAKE UP AN SEE THAT THE RESULTS OF THE DEMEANING NEGATIVITY THEY EXUBERATE;
CAN”T BE FIXED BY ANOTHER OR EVEN LOVE FOR THAT MATTER OF A FACT!!!!
LOVE WELL……….HAS BECOME A FOREIGN WERD TO THESE KIND OF INDIVIDUALS, an if it was staring them down like a tiger they would miss out on it!……..
For my life i know what its like to have personal integrity enuff not to bitch at another, even when ya know they might owe ya more than they BELIEVE!? WHERE AN WHEN EVERTHING BECOMES A PROBLEM! an u no longer serve them to thier own desires.AN UR in THIER WAY!?…….if ur not flattering the ego of them an agreeing with all thier matter of correctness all the time, well,at that point in time ya will looseeeeeeeeeeeee………BOUT ALL THERE IS TO IT!!!!! so watch it when dealing with “FRIENDS” that are only out to satisfy thier own personal needs an DESIRES!? 😦 sad deal when other can’t
LOOK AT THEMSELVES!!!!!!! BUT THEY ALWAYS HAVE SOMETHING NGATIVE TO SAY BOUT OTHERS AN LIFE 😦
AN FALSE PRIDE AN EGO GETS IN THE WAY OF SOMEONE GOING OUT OF THIER WAY TO HELP THEM WITH EVERY NEED AN DESIRE THEY HAVE????? 😦

PS: Not the furst time i have repeated this mistake at all, i am too trusting, i believe in the end they will see THE TRUTH…but is a pipe dream really…..for until they look at themselves AN HAVE SOME REMORSE AN grattitude THIS WILL NOT CHANGE EVER! cAN’T FIX OR CHANGE SOMEONE ELSES BAD ATTITUDE OR VIEWPOINTS IF THEY DON’T WANT TO FIX THEMSELVES….

LAST YEAR I PUT MY WHOLE TRUST AN MY LIFES ENERGY INTO A friends life……I LOST OUT!……. He made a business deal with me 50-50……. well we all know how that turned out now….50% of 50% is still 25% of the whole!!!!!!!!! an he still has not returned PERSONAL stuff that he has that is mine!!!!!! on top of that …..taking advantage of another an IN UR FACE FUCK YOU IS THE WAY FOR PEOPLE LIKE THIS!!!!!
AN this summer i put my whole life an energy into helping another that don’t appreciate the same way…ALTHOUGH THIS PERSON DIDN’T IN MY FACE TAKE FRUM ME…..THIS PERSON ASSAULTED SOMETHING JEST AS IMPORTANT IN MY LIFE TO ME THAN ALL THE MONEY IN THE WERLD AN MATERIAL ASSETS INCLUDED…..MY PERSONAL INTEGRITY!
JEST ANOTHER LAYER AN LEVEL OF WINNING!!!! FOR THIER EGO!!!!!!!!!!!!…
MUST BE A HELL OF A WAY TO LIVE? ALWAYS BEING RIGHT AN ALWAYS HAVING THINGS THIER WAY!……………ALWAYS BEING BETTER THAN THE GUY NEXT DOOR!!!!! ALWAYS BEING PURFECT!!!!.NEVER BEING WRONG…AN ALWAYS ACTING LIKE EVRYONE ELSE IS THE “PROBLEM”…..
SOUND LIKE A RANT.YES INDEED IT IS……. cuz i am so tired of incriminating selfish self centered holier than thou attitudes coming frum those with serious character defects an life problems they themselves can’t even see an don’t think they have…….

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6 thoughts on “LOOK AT YOURSELF!

  1. How true Quark! My hubby and I tried to help out many a friend’s in trouble only to be screwed in the end, used and abused and thrown away! We cut our losses and moved out of town, only to have to deal with family members exactly like you described! We dumped them like a hot potato! No use for their negativity and self destruction that we tried to get them to see…shame people are like that!
    Great Rant!! Lb

    • yeah well, Many do not have an idea how controlling an abusive they can be, even in subtle wayzzzz…..They know when they hold all the cards, they think that because they feed ya they will not get bit? kinna ironic…2 me they do not see why they have the problems they have with people in the past, has a lot to do with judgements an being judgemental an holier than thou in personality type….kindness for animals okay,,,but people …some are jest people haters if ya don’t live up to their standards…I wake evry day with pains beyond normal belief for many people….So to jest over come them is enuff alone all in itself…let alone having to be judged for how i do things 24/7 guess famaliarity doess somehow breed contempt in many…in so many wayzzzz though..thanks fer caring lady! my post-its will get back to normal whatevr that is with the next post-it……..if i am still alive lol. …..take care . namaste 2 u an urz! freindship is suppose to be a 2 way street though no matter who ya are the way i see it…frum da’ Q

      • I know exactly what you mean, I was judged for the meds I took for my pain, while my alcoholic relative kept insisting (when drunk and sslurring) bitching I was stoned on my meds, and I wasn’t doing enough for it… I-Yi- Yi!!
        Back atcha ! Q…take care! ((hugs)) Lb

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